7 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULDN'T GO BACK TO YOUR EX

Breakups hurt. There’s no two ways around it. Whether you were the one who decided that you two just couldn’t be together anymore or you’re the one who was dumped, and whether it happened completely out of the blue (although ending a relationship is rarely a decision one makes out of thin air) or you could feel it coming for a while, it hurts.
The truth is something was wrong last time. It had to be. You don’t break up for no reason. They cheated, you fell out of love, they weren’t the person you thought they were, they stopped going to the gym, one of you fell for someone else, they wouldn’t close the toothpaste cap… something had to happen to make you break up. Magic won’t help you now. The past is the past, and most of the time you can’t get it back.
1. Remembered you guys break up for some reasons, you thought they have change.
2. This shocking but that's the truth, there are someone surely better than your ex, just be patient
3. Those issues still exist: Remember the first point we made, how the breakup happened for a reason? Think about that reason. Whether someone cheated or you two just naturally drifted apart over time, something huge drove you apart. Maybe it wasn’t such a major issue as that but a combination of little things.
The fact of the matter is those issues don’t just disappear overnight. If you two get back together a week or a month after the initial split, your love will still come with the same problems as before. You can’t make someone change.
4. Think about how much you want them back and how much you miss them. Very likely, you don’t think about how much you trust them, right? You certainly trust them. After all, this is the person who loved you, took care of you, treated you right, broke your heart…yeah. Don’t forget about that. This is one of those things that you probably won’t foresee and you really can’t predict. No matter how many sleepless hours you spend at night thinking and furiously dreaming about what it’d be like to get back together, the trust issues tend to only crop up once you’re actually back in your ex’s loving embrace.
Think about it: this man or woman destroyed your heart, blasting it to smithereens. Now that they’ve done it once, what’s stopping them from doing it again? Absolutely nothing.
5. If it's out of loneliness, people often get back together with an ex because they are lonely, which is not a healthy reason to get involved.
6. Time does not change things.
It is easy to get caught up in the passing of time. Most relationships that continue to repeat the cycle (breakup, get back together, break up again). They do so because time allows them to forget about the things that went wrong and hold on to the things that went right. The problem with falling victim to time is that you will realize shortly after getting back together that you are still the same people with the same issues. And now all you have is time wasted.
7. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Take this as an opportunity to get out and start living for you. Use this time to better yourself, and get in touch with your needs and desires. There are plenty of women out there waiting to make the most of your time, but you are not going to find them back in bed with your ex. If you are worried that all hope is lost, get online to date and go out to social events. You will find the greener grass.
We hold onto yesterday in fear of what tomorrow may bring. What if everything you always dreamed of was waiting for you tomorrow? How many tomorrows would you let pass you by?